Selfish ways to live
1. Say no to people
1. Say no to people
The more you say no to people, the more you will say yes to things that are improtant for you.
2. Remove
Those who suck energy from you.
3. Make your happiness your no.01 priority
until you are not happy, people around you will never be happy around you.
Cool rules for life
1. The 30-day rule:-
If you really want to buy something. wait for aso days and ask yourself if you still need it. Chances are you won't need them anymore.
2. the 2-minutes ruke:-
If something can be done in less then 2 minutes, get it done. Don't add it to your to-do lilst amd pile up one then list.
3. Fundamental relationship rule:-
If you have to become someone that you do not like, In a relationship, then chnage the relationship not yourself.
3 Mistakes parents Make:-
1. Hit the floor when the kid fall:-
Essentially teaching kids that it is not thier falut. They can always blame someone else.
2. Tell them something that you do not personally follow:-
Essentially teaching kids that lying is a natural way of living.
3. Love the other child if the first one is angry:-
Essentially teaching kids that if your do not listen to me, I will not love you. Thus spoiling their definitiion of lo9ves.
3 Things best friends do
1. They are genuinely happy for your success:-
It is easy to be there when someone is sad, but it is intensely hard to be truly happy when someone else wins.
2. They always telll you the truth:-
Knowing that the trutth will be hard, and you might not talk to them after that, yet they state it, becasue it is the light thing to do.
3. They do not hold you responsible for their happpiness :-
They do not say "Why aren't you there for me why do you not make me happy?"
Instead, they ask "How can I make you happy?"
Instead, they ask "How can I make you happy?"
3 Relationships Mistakes to avoid:-
1. Don't be a people Pleaser
The more your identity depends on what others think of you, the lesser you will be happy in your life.
2. Don't always solve problems:-
Sometimes all that one wants is for them to be heard.
3. Don't Judge People:-
I used to judge people who smoke, drant, thinki8ng they are bad people. It is not what they they do, but who they are within , that defines them.
3 Mistakes to avoid in your 20s
1. Not takinng care of your body:-
In your 20s, the long term imput of your decisions will not be visible. It is only much later in life you will realize how you abused your body.
2. Not thinking about your money:-
Not respecting it. nOt investing it, So that it can work for you.
3. Spending time with people who are like you:-
When you spend time with people like you, you learn nothing new. You just hear what you already know.
3 Signs of Toxic people
1. They make you feel bad about who you are.
2. They make you feel guilty if they are sad.
3. They always blame you if you are not there for them.
3 Signs that you have a long way to go
1. You get angey a lot:-
You feel that anger is a legitimate way of expressing yourself.
2. If someone says anything mean to you even for second, you spend the entire day thinking about it.
3. You still crave for people's validation
Until you do not hear good things about yourself from people, you don't feel good about yourself.
3 Things you should never apologise for
1. For the clothes you wear:-
It is your choice, it is your life. Do not give anyone the power to shame you!
2. For ending a toxic relationship:-
You wanted out for yourself and did the rihgt thing.
3. For being who you are:-
You can apologize for what you have done, or what you shouldn't have said, but don't ever apologize for your identity, your existence.
Written by Priyaranjan Kumar Rai